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Where do kids get their nerve these days!? We copulate intimately to bring them into the world, I think there's some love in the act! We bring them home from the hospital, wrap them in blue and pink "blankies," wipe their noses, clean their tushies, buy them bikes, Gameboys and $150 sneakers, and the next time we turn around they're taking over the freaking house and telling us what they will and will not do! Have parents turned into maids and butlers, just in the house to keep things clean and tidy and keep the bills paid while Johnny and Mary ruin the transmissions on the family cars, crank up the Crunk, and basically take over the joint? I know from whence I speak because my husband and I just had to evict our 23 year old daughter who, for some reason, went into the delusion that she was Paris Hilton and, yes, could do whatever she wanted, which included but was not limited to statying out all night without calling to let us know if she was all right (she had a car accident last year and refused to call to let us know what happened, opting instead to call her grandmother who then called us), and throwing the bird to her father while actually using the f word to him besides. LUNACY! Our 27 year old son tried to strong arm his dad and punched him in the stomach, to which my husband jacked him up against the wall and told him, "Oh no you don't! I am still your father." Except for the occasional hole Aaron kicks in the wall, for which we now make him pay, he's calmed down considerably much!
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The two environments where a teen could potentially be exposed to the threat of corporal punishment would be the school and the home. School is not a prison and home is not a holding cell where the teen is held captive. Teens might possibly feel they are living in a war zone, if they are victims of misguided adults who are resorting to corporal punishment as a form of discipline.
Using physical force to discipline children and teens is the act of undisciplined parents. They are either repeating behavior they experienced in their childhood, or impulsively venting their anger at the moment.
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Children do not learn appropriate behavior through being disciplined with physical violence. Violence may sound like a strong word for "spanking," but if a small child is being hit or smacked by an individual much larger and stronger, the child has no defense and is very much the victim of violence.
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* Humiliation and low self-esteem
A teenager who has been physically abused under the guise of "discipline" will suffer humiliation and permanent damage to his psyche. He will have anger issues and perceive himself as a "bad person." Negative inner dialogue will infiltrate every aspect of his life. Low self-esteem will render him an emotional cripple who relates poorly to others and cannot succeed in establishing healthy relationships.
His self-confidence may be compromised to the point that professional therapy is needed to undue the damage. Most victims of corporal punishment do not have enough self-awareness to seek therapy and they live out their lives never reaching their optimal potential in productiveness or relationships.
If parents find themselves at a loss, and unable to deal with an out-of-control teen, there are solutions other than corporal punishment. Physical force will only compound the problem. They can seek professional counseling for the teen,[url=http://kevindurant4shoesforsale.blogspot.com/][b]discount kevin durant shoes[/b][/url], or possibly for the entire family. Often a teen's negative behavior is a symptom of deeper underlying issues of dysfunction in the family dynamics.
If children are treated with respect from the time they are young, they learn to be respectful in return. As they grow and develop into teenagers, that aura of mutual respect between parent and child remains intact and the need for discipline can be accomplished with discussions about good and bad choices and differentiating between right and wrong. When stronger methods of discipline are necessary,[url=http://cheapsoccercleatsonlinestore.blogspot.com/][b]cheap soccer cleats[/b][/url], grounding from friends and social activities is quite effective with most teens.
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