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Certainly you’ll want to check to see if there are state regulations governing at what age a child can stay home alone, says Longhurst, but your best indicator will be that little voice inside. “If you have concerns, it means you probably should have concerns,” he says. “One of a child’s developmental stages [url=http://www.mnfruit.com/louboutinpascher.php]louboutin pas cher[/url] involves responsibility. Sensitivity to where your child is on the developmental continuum can help you make wise accommodations.”
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The point is exhaustive lists of dos and don’ts aren’t nearly as helpful as rules that take a child’s particular situation into account. “Situational parenting means you offer more or less direction, depending on the situation,” says Longhurst. “This kind of flexibility shows your child that you understand [url=http://www.sandvikfw.net/shopuk.php]hollister sale[/url] who he is and that, in turn, builds confidence and trust.”
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Longhurst suggests other activities that can help your child have a summer “alone” that helps build family bonds and personal confidence:
* Check with your child’s school to find out what subject areas they’ll be studying in the coming year. Then, get creative. Rent movies that pertain to the subject, for example. “Make activities like watching TV productive rather than consumptive,” says Longhurst.
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* Look for volunteer opportunities in your community. There are plenty of activities a child can do for a favorite organization without leaving the house. Charities always need people to address envelopes, design flyers, even bake items for bake sales. “Service learning is important to healthy development,” says Longhurst. [url=http://www.gotprintsigns.com/abercrombiepascher/‎]abercrombie pas cher[/url] “It teaches us that we’re a part of something bigger than just ourselves.”
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