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hollister How Fear Drives The Cheating Partner

 
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Do you fear the unknown, or is it uncertainty? Deep within each one of us is a longing to be wanted or cared for. In many respects we are pack animals and like to be in the company of other people. We have an inherent fear of being alone as we get older and this drives a lot of the way that we actually behave.
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When fear takes hold this is not the time to cave into its demands, but it is the time to uncover and address all those, possibly baseless, fears. Maybe the fear of the unknown also means that you are not aware how to fix the situation, or who to turn to. This is the time to clearly understand that you are stronger than those irrational fears and that [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] you can take the action necessary to put things right.
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